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Phrase(s): been had [and] was had; have been had
1. (of a woman) been copulated with; been made pregnant. • I’ve been had, and I’m going to have the baby. • When she said she had been had, I didn’t know it happened on her honeymoon. 2. been mistreated, cheated, or dealt with badly. • Look at this cheap shirt that I paid $30 for! I was had! • I’ve been had by that lousy gyp joint.
McGrawhill's American Idioms And Phrasal Verbs